by Janet M. Shlaes, PhD
What do you profess to value and what do you actually value? Lately, I’ve increasingly noticed the gap between
words and actions in myself and in others. This repeatedly shows up around the
gravitational pull of technology. Don’t get me wrong. I love the benefits of
technology, dearly treasure my technological gadgets and greatly appreciate
what technology does to enhance our work and increase our connection with
others. Unfortunately, there are costs attached to
always being virtually connected.
Connection via technology often provides the illusion
of relationship at the expense of authentic connection. I am increasingly disturbed
to see people sitting on a bench in an art museum or a playground focusing on
their email, texts, etc. rather than on the amazing work of art in front of
them or their miraculous offspring. I would imagine that if asked, each of
these individuals would talk about valuing art, beauty and the miracle of life.
I have also been guilty of these behaviors resulting from the seduction of
technology.
What do you profess to value and what do you actually
value? Actions, rather than words, ultimately define how we move through the
world, who we are and what we truly value. We often
choose actions that are not aligned with our stated values and our desired
identity. I invite you to step back on a regular basis to observe the alignment
of your words and actions with your core values. You have nothing to lose and everything to
gain.
Janet
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