by Janet M. Shlaes, Ph.D.
Does Less Equal More? Does having less stuff always equal more
in terms of living a happier and richer life? I propose that the answer to this
question depends on several variables. Let me explain……
Proponents of minimalism advocate for a better life via less
stuff, less consumption and essentially leaving a smaller carbon foot print.
Graham Hill presents the case for this type of minimalism in his popular 2011
Ted Talk, Less
Stuff, More Happiness. I regularly show this video to my graduate students
in counseling and organizational development and find two main reactions: some
students find the video to be inspiring and soothing and others, after viewing
the video, become increasingly agitated. Both types of responses serve to
generate deep and powerful conversations regarding values and individual
differences in terms of life narratives.
Individuals who tend to be drawn to radical simplicity in terms of
aesthetic and function usually find this Ted Talk to be highly engaging and
comforting. They report valuing the ease and simplicity of minimalism, as well
as the intentionality behind living a life where everything in their home
serves an essential function. Although they may
choose to have expensive technology and other “stuff” in their home, they fully
utilize everything that they own, including their furniture, appliances and
clothes. If they don’t use something on a regular basis, they get rid of the
item. Their chosen way of being in the world from a more minimalist perspective
fully aligns with their current life situation, values, developmental stage and desire to simplify their world and responsibilities.
Individuals who tend to get agitated by Graham’s Ted Talk, detail their need to be surrounded by objects that are personally
meaningful, even if these items don’t necessarily provide a concrete function.
They like to be surrounded by “stuff” that evokes positive memories of the past
and a sense of tactile richness that provides a physical and psychological soothing
function. These individuals often comment on how they may not use most of what
they carry with them or have in their home, but can’t imagine parting with
most of their possessions.
Does having less always equal more happiness and life
satisfaction? The answer for each of us provides critical information regarding
core values, needs, life narrative, personal meaning and aesthetic. I
invite you to explore this question in your own life.
Janet
For related topics to explore, check out the following posts:
Learn Something New
Embracing "Good Enough"
Breakdown to Breakthrough
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